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DETERMINE YOUR SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP INCOMPATIBILITY UP FRONT

Before you embark on a quest to find your perfect match, it is useful to be honest with yourself about your faults, quirks, and likes and dislikes.. 

If you have one or more failed relationships in the past, you know what your faults and problems are...you've been reminded of them many times by your former partner.

The truth is you aren't likely to modify your likes or dislikes just because you're in love. Actually most people hide their true likes and dislikes during the first few weeks of infatuation then blow out and revert to their normal selves.

In initial encounters with members of the opposite sex, or same sex as the case may be, folks tend to focus on what they have in common and not on the other sides of them that are potential relationship problems.

Go to any internet dating site, and there's very little emphasis on dislikes and issues. 

Most relationships start off focused on the positive connections, then the rest of the relationship is spent hassling over the non-positive elements until the point is reached where the couple tolerates (usually grudgingly) the negatives, or the negatives finally outweigh the positives and breakup occurs.

An incredible amount of time and energy is spent grappling with relational negativities.

The smart thing to do is get them out on the table early on in a blossoming relationship.

But, this starts with you being honest with yourself and your partner being honest with themselves right at the beginning on a relationship that one hopes will last more than one night. Do not read any further if all you are seeking is a one night stand. Remember, be careful what you wish for...if the Deity doesn't like you She might grant your prayer.

Scientists at the General Delivery University have concluded that is a good idea to exchange negativities very early on (though after the first night in bed) and see how that looks. Negotiate what is or is not going to be a deal-breaker right up front.

Take the following Sexual Relationship Incompatibility Test with your partner or would-be partner. Compare your results. We guarantee a lot of interesting conversation will result.

Find out where you really agree or disagree about your sexual relationship. Each partner takes the test, and then you compare the results. Unless we misunderstand such things, you both will resolve a lot of potential issues between you real fast.

SEXUAL INCOMPATIBILITY TEST

What sex are you? Male
Female
Have you cheated on a former partner? Yes
No
Would you like to watch your partner having sex with someone else? Yes
No
Do you secretly jerk off? Yes
No
Do you like exposing parts of your body to attract attention? Yes
No
Do you really like to be licked and sucked? Yes
No
Do you really like anal sex? Yes
No
Do you like to lick and suck your partner? Yes
No
Do you always want to be on top? Yes
No
Do you fantasize having sex with someone else while you are having sex with your partner? Yes
No
Are you very afraid of having your dick cut off with a knife by your partner? Yes
No
If you had a choice of having sex with your partner, or hanging out with your friends, you would choose to hang out with your friends? Yes
No
Would your partner like to watch you having sex with someone else? Yes
No
Has a former partner cheated on you? Yes
No
Do you constantly ogle other men or women in the presence of your partner? Yes
No
Have you ever followed a woman or a man around some public place? Yes
No
Have you ever paid for sex? Yes
No
Do you yearn for an intimate relationship with your partner, but constantly think you could have a better intimate relationship with someone else? Yes
No
Have you watched your partner having sex with someone else? Yes
No
Do you like doggy style? Yes
No
Do you always wait to come until your partner comes? Yes
No
Are you bothered when your partner doesn't come? Yes
No
Have you ever faked coming with your current partner? Yes
No
Could you tell your partner "not tonight" and not piss them off? Yes
No
If your partner was horny and you weren't, would you jerk them off anyway? Yes
No
Do you like taking pictures of your partner naked? Yes
No
Does your partner like pictures being taken of them naked? Yes
No
Have you ever made a video of you having sex with another person? Yes
No
Do you like S/M? Yes
No
Do you like the dress up and play roles? Yes
No
I am a Dom? Yes
No
I am a Submissive? Yes
No
I like mixing food and sex? Yes
No
I like doing it outdoors? Yes
No
I like doing it in public and other risky places? Yes
No
I always use protection on my first date? Yes
No
I have driven more than 100 miles to have sex? Yes
No
I have had sex with more than 2 people on the same day? Yes
No
I have or want to have a 3som? Yes
No
Two men? Yes
No
Two women? Yes
No
Couple? Yes
No
I want an open relationship? Yes
No
I always ask my partner what their favorite things are? Yes
No
My partner's satisfaction is just as important as mine? Yes
No
I sometimes like it really slow and erotic with lots of foreplay? Yes
No
Do you tend to lie a lot? Yes
No
I always like it slow and erotic with lots of foreplay? Yes
No
I like doing it in the shower or bathtub? Yes
No
Do fat men or women turn you off? Yes
No
I like doing it on the dining room table or kitchen counter? Yes
No
Do you sleep in your underwear? Yes
No
Do you mind if your partner sleeps in their underwear? Yes
No
I like doing it in an office? Yes
No
I like doing it in the living room? Yes
No
I like being ravished? Yes
No
I like talking dirty with my partner? Yes
No
Do you have a stash of pornographic magazines or dvds somewhere in your house? Yes
No
If the answer to the above is yes, do you really believe your partner doesn't know where that stash is? Yes
No
I like my partner to make noise during sex? Yes
No
I like to do it in cars or vans? Yes
No
I like group sex orgies? Yes
No
I have had sex when I was or my sex partner was drunk and passed out? Yes
No
I have been sexually molested in the past? Yes
No
I'm really gay and just pretending to be heterosexual to avoid problems with my partner? Yes
No
I can't stand it when the dog or cat is watching us have sex? Yes
No
I'd like to be in a porno movie? Yes
No
I have a lot of fantasies? Yes
No
I can share my fantasies with my partner? Yes
No
I can tell my partner what I want without being afraid my partner will reject me? Yes
No
I'd give up smoking in exchange for having more sex? Yes
No
Each partner takes this test and then compares their answers.

Copyright 2006-2008 by Hugh A. Holub


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